Time will tell.

Well it seems that since the vcr "emergency" things have wound up for her and she is lashing out in all the expected ways. I was sick for the last week since her emergency call and thus did not have the energy to speak to her and did not call her. She of course did not call me and now I hear via my brother that we are all to be punished and mostly due to me.

It seems that, and this is in a nutshell, since nobody is going to take care of her she is going to buy herself a 75th birthday present and go to Hawaii. Good for her I thought as did my brother when she told him this. That was until she followed that with the nugget that she was going to sell the cottage so that she could do this every year. She goes on to say she's broken hearted but would not elaborate about what. We all know that it was my suposedly saying that I would never be at the cottage when she was there that she claims broke her heart. Now as a result she says that she is punishing us by selling the cottage. That was followed with "besides I need the money anyway." It's all about the money. Oh and control. I didn't believe that she was really going on this trip but was told that she already bought her ticket. I still say I'll believe it when her plane takes off and she's on it.

I also won't believe that she will sell the cottage until I am told it's a done deal. Part of me actually wishes she would just do it already. At least it put an end to all this shit. Then I could probably be truly done with her; once and for all.

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